Sorry your cousin is sick unto death ;-( But then we all are, at least after 25. Some of us just take longer to go over-ripe. You can live longer if you can fit into a refrigerator and you are Indiana Jones ;-)) So if he is still married ... how does his wife feel about being pulled into Heaven by her long hair? Jus' askin'.
He's been dead for about 10 years now. He divorced his wife because she was getting in the way of his girlfriends, although I suspect there were also other marriage issues. However, he wanted his kids to get his sizeable government pension, so he remarried his ex just before he died.
There were some legal time constraints involved. He had to be married for two months (or something) for his pension to transfer. I kept telling him to get remarried right away, but he kept putting it off because of is girlfriends. He was also somewhat in denial about the inevitability of his own death. As it turned out, he remarried his ex, made it through the legal time period for pension eligibility, and died just a day or two after he met the two month requirement (Now tell me there isn't a god
I met his wife. It was obvious he didn't care about her, but I couldn't tell if she cared about him or not, although she informed his girlfriends they were not wanted at the funeral. She was also a Mormon, so maybe she was relieved that he came back to the church to save her soul. I don't know. I suspect she believed that crap about eternal bliss on Kaleb (or whatever it's called) in the afterlife. The pension must have been nice too.
He suffered greatly with the cancer, especially at the end, and the rekindling of his partnership with the Mormon Church added a bizarre quality to his suffering and death. It was classic last minute repentance after a life of freedom, fornication, and back-slidin'. His life of pleasure and autonomy must have created a bit of inner conflict, unless he was sure he would have enough time to do a last minute soul save. But I wouldn't trust myself to be that lucky. But then the promise of eternal bliss is such a transparent con-game, I couldn't believe than nonsense, even if I wanted.