"When did you first notice that men were looking at you in a sexual way?"

[PickelledEggs]

If you remember,  this is the same guy that wants to have sex with his relatives...

Sent from your mom.

I just realized how inappropriate this signature is for this thread.... lmao

[the_antithesis]

The more I talk to women, the more and more I am ashamed of having a penis (because it means I have to be related to these creeps). So many men are seriously pathetic... I don't know if I have talked to any women (and even some gay guys) who has not had experiences of men just completely having zero respect for them as anything other than a fuck toy and "something" they can harass. The fact that I have had to walk with coworkers through a college campus because they are concerned about being harassed or worse is just pathetic.

Well, I'm currently on a thing where this is all biological. It starts with this tasty sound byte:

A penis implies, but does not necessitate, rape.

Not all animals have penises. Eagles, for example do not have one. Their genitals "kiss" to transfer the sperm. Of course, eagles also fuck while falling to earth from hundreds of feet in the air. If they fail to disengage and take flight in time, the term "spread eagle" gets a new meaning.

The duck, on the other hand is the one of the most rapin' animals on the planet. If you see ducks having sex, chances are you're witnessing a rape. Now ducks do have a penis. A penis twice as long as their body, for fuck's sake, and corkscrews! The female duck has developed a defense against the male's phallus by having an extra long vaginal cavity that twists and turns, so the male developed a penis and an elaborate erection procedure to compensate.

Now the reason why ducks developed penises in the first place is to aide with rape. At least from a biological standpoint, the purpose of the penis is to keep the naughty bits lined up to facilitate the delivery of sperm. Especially is one of the participants is unwilling and trying to fight the other one off or simply walk away.

The biological reason for rape comes from our selfish genes and how they shape our behavior to have us pass them down to the next generation (because genes that don't do this will die out). Typically, the female decides whom they shall mate with and they usually select the biggest, strongest, healthiest, most impressive males. This makes sense as they want healthy, strong offspring for the next generation. But what does a male do if they are not the biggest, strongest, healthiest or very impressive? His genes still compel him to procreate, but those dumb jocks are getting all the action. If he cannot get a female to mate with him willingly, he mates with one who is unwilling. It's a method that is successful in allowing a less than ideal male to pass on his genes.

So, what does this all mean, besides that ducks are not wholesome animals and you shouldn't take the kids to the park to see them.

First off, a penis is nothing to be proud of. Nothing to be ashamed of, either. We have found them to be quite... agreeable during consensual sex. But they do show that we are all descended from creatures for whom non-consensual sex was viable breeding strategy.

However, we are not merely slaves to our gene and biological heritage. We can think and make our own choices and do better than our ancestors.

Apart from that, I really don't have much insight on the matter.

[Mike Cl]

We share the dna of all animals of this earth.  And those animals have all forms of mating--some seem neat to us and others not so neat.  So what?????  Just because a chimp has a certain biological drive does not equate to human sexual drive.  Yes the biological drive in humans is strong--it was developed to ensure the continued existence of our species.  However, if I get a boner by just being out and about does not give me licence to act in inappropriate ways toward the reason for my boner.  Biology cannot be used as an excuse to act badly.  I am  in enough of control of myself that I have choices to make--and I have to be held accountable for any choice I make, good or bad.  Whatever the reason for my boner is on me and cannot be used as an excuse to molest another person. 

It is a sad fact that females of all ages, sizes and shapes are subjected to unwanted sexual harassment far, far too often in this society.  There are a thousand reasons for that--none of which are acceptable.

[Draconic Aiur]

Is this a joke or something?

The stories of these women involve men who SPOKE TO THEM SEXUALLY and THREATENED THEM when they were children. That is not ok. Nobody is fucking saying you are a threat because you have a penis. Nobody is saying you're horrible if you look at someone's tits.

you gave a few out of many quotes ans suddenly you think the whole thing is like that. Yes they spoke but most didnt touch. Also it is pretense that ur saying men are bad  or pepetually boys are bad foe having raging hormones and looking at girls and saying look at her tits

[Draconic Aiur]

If you remember,  this is the same guy that wants to have sex with his relatives...

Sent from your mom.

great lets gather around to discuss my flaws other than the fact preteens are disgusting to me 16 maybe but i like women legal and more mature

[dtq123]

great lets gather around to discuss my flaws other than the fact preteens are disgusting to me 16 maybe but i like women legal and more mature

Am I the only one interested in loli, Milfs, but not much in between?

[SGOS]

When did you first notice that men were looking at you in a sexual way?

I was walking my dog through a picnic area of a forest preserve in Chicago, when a guy kept cruising by me in his car.  It looked like he was getting ready to try and make contact with me.  I followed a trail to another picnic area on the other side of the preserve, but he had driven around and was waiting there for me, still eyeballing me.  I took another trail back to the first picnic area, but he got out of the car and followed me.  I wasn't going to panic and start running like an idiot, so he caught up with me, and started talking to me.  He quickly worked in to the conversation that I could get raped walking around the woods by myself.  Hell, I had walked in those woods my entire life, and knew of no such incidents.  I told him I wasn't interested in getting raped, and started walking away from him again.  He didn't follow this time.  I was a little nervous, because I was in the woods, somewhat alone, with a complete stranger who was making weird conversation.  Mostly, I was surprised.

[Draconic Aiur]

Am I the only one interested in loli, Milfs, but not much in between?

Japan riuned us with the loli shit. But only cartoon porn. weird.

[Aletheia]

Yes they spoke but most didnt touch.

Sigh... I'm guessing you didn't bother to read my post.

This topic isn't about the casual glancing at a woman's boobs and sexual harassment doesn't start the moment a man touches a woman inappropriately. If a gay man you really didn't know who was much stronger than you talked about all the ways he wanted to fuck you and everyone around you downplayed the event as you just "exaggerating" or told you to "deal with it" because gay men have stronger libidos than straight men, I doubt you would be ok because he hasn't touched you yet. I'm pretty sure you'd be a little bothered if this behemoth of a gay man had you cornered and was telling you how he'd pin you to the desk, tear away your clothes, and give it to you hard and dry. I think it's safe to say that you'd feel pissed that someone had the gall to talk to you like that and given that this man can literally overpower you with almost no effort, I'm sure you'd be a little worried about your safety.

I think it's fair to say that you'd want this man to keep a respectable distance, shut the fuck up about his fantasies about you, and you'd want people to listen to you when you say this has gone too far.

Talking to someone in such a vulgar way is no different than calling a black person a "nigger," a Mexican a "wetback," a Korean a "gook," or a German a "Nazi." Yes, you may find a person sexually attractive, but unless you are already intimate with a person - there is no reason to discuss sexually explicit things you want to do to that person. In doing so, the man or woman is stripped of their equality and relegated to the role of sex object. Just like any other offensive language, a person is dehumanized. The black man becomes chattel, the Mexican nothing more than dirty illegal alien sneaking across the border, the Korean a slant-eyed caricature, and the German a fascist killer of Jews.   

[stromboli]

I think this thread is making me more depressed than the actual Reddit discussion.

Proof once again of why I respect your intelligence.

[PickelledEggs]

great lets gather around to discuss my flaws other than the fact preteens are disgusting to me 16 maybe but i like women legal and more mature

Just putting things in perspective. Mermaid seemed surprised at what you were saying, and I wanted to remind her who it was coming from.

[GSOgymrat]

And now on a lighter note...

https://youtu.be/qVO3sNcJ7A8

[Atheon]

Never understood cat-calling. I can't imagine it has ever worked in attracting a woman.

[Mermaid]

you gave a few out of many quotes ans suddenly you think the whole thing is like that. Yes they spoke but most didnt touch. Also it is pretense that ur saying men are bad  or pepetually boys are bad foe having raging hormones and looking at girls and saying look at her tits

Um. No. But you are plainly incapable of having a conversation about this and seem to be deliberately ignoring the important points. You seem to be fabricating shit as you go along here.

I have no interest in carrying this any further with you, other than to say I hope you don't hurt anyone.

[Draconic Aiur]

Um. No. But you are plainly incapable of having a conversation about this and seem to be deliberately ignoring the important points. You seem to be fabricating shit as you go along here.

I have no interest in carrying this any further with you, other than to say I hope you don't hurt anyone.

you mean to say your butthurt