http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/out-the-darkness/201208/why-men-oppress-womenIn Europe the status of women has risen significantly over the last few decades, but in many parts of the world male domination and oppression continues. In many Middle Eastern countries, for example, women effectively live as prisoners, unable to leave the house except under the guardianship of a male guardian. (There are many Saudi Arabian women who have only left their houses a handful of times in their whole lives.) And when — or if — they do go outside, they are obliged to cover themselves from head to toe in black, leaving them in danger of vitamin deficiency and dehydration. They have no role at all in determining their own lives; they are seen as nothing more than a commodity, property of the males of the family, and as owners, the men have the right to make decisions for them. Their male owners have the right to have sex with them on demand too. In Egypt, surveys have shown that the vast majority of men and women believe it is acceptable for a man to beat his wife if she refuses sex.
There have been attempts to explain the oppression of women in biological terms. For example, in his book The Inevitablity of Patriarchy, the sociologist Stephen Goldberg suggests that men are naturally more competitive than women because of their high level of testosterone. This makes them aggressive and power-hungry, so that they inevitably take over the high status positions in a society, leaving women to the more subordinate roles.
However, in my view the maltreatment of women has more deep-rooted psychological causes. In my new book Back to Sanity, I suggest that most human beings suffer from an underlying psychological disorder, which I call ‘humania.' The oppression of women is a symptom of this disorder. It’s one thing to take over the positions of power in a society, but another to seemingly despise women, and inflict so much brutality and degradation on them. What sane species would treat half of its members — and the very half which gives birth to the whole species — with such contempt and injustice? Despite their high level of testosterone, the men of many ancient and indigenous cultures revered women for their life-giving and nurturing role, so why don’t we?
The oppression of women stems largely from men’s desire for power and control. The same need which, throughout history, has driven men to try to conquer and subjugate other groups or nations, and to oppress other classes or groups in their own society, drives them to dominate and oppress women. Since men feel the need to gain as much power and control as they can, they steal away power and control from women. They deny women the right to make decisions so that they can make them for them, leave women unable to direct their own lives so that they can direct their lives for them. Ultimately, they’re trying to increase their sense of significance and status, in an effort to offset the discontent and sense of lack created by humania.
But even this isn’t enough to explain the full terrible saga of man’s inhumanity to woman. Many cultures have had a strong antagonism towards women, viewing them as impure and innately sinful creatures who have been sent by the devil to lead men astray. This view was at the heart of the European witch-killing mania of the 15th to 18th centuries, and has featured strongly in all three Abrahamic religions. As the Jewish Testament of Reuben states:
Women are evil, my children…they use wiles and try to ensnare [man] by their charms…They lay plots in their hearts against men: by the way they adorn themselves they first lead their minds astray, and by a look they instil the poison, and then in the act itself they take them captive…So shun fornication, my children and command your wives and daughters not to adorn their heads and faces.
This is linked to the view — encouraged by religions — that instincts and sensual desires are base and sinful. Men associated themselves with the “purity” of the mind, and women with the “corruption” of the body. Since biological process like sex, menstruation, breast-feeding and even pregnancy were disgusting, women themselves disgusted them too.
In connection with this, perhaps men have resented the sexual power that women have over them too. Feeling that sex was sinful, they were bound to feel animosity to the women who produced their sexual desires. In addition, women’s sexual power must have affronted their need for control. This meant that they couldn’t have the complete domination over women — and over their own bodies — that they craved. They might be able to force women to cover their bodies and faces and make them live like slaves, but any woman was capable of arousing powerful and uncontrollable sexual impulses inside them at any moment. The last 6000 years of man’s inhumanity to woman can partly be seen as a revenge for this.
First of all, I don't buy all of this. Nor the argument that he makes about another author's assertions. As I have mentioned here a few times, I was raised by a single mother in a very predominant patriarchal society. I think it is too simplistic to say simply that men got Testosterone and therefore need to dominate women.
In my mother's case, she was usually smarter than the men she was dealing with and they felt threatened by her. I got her side on a lot of issues, including the fact that she at one point de facto ran a shirt factory while the men above her got the pay and the credit. My mother was a world class seamtress- most of the clothes I wore growing up, she made. She got kicked out of a Relief Society job as a literary resource because she introduced Mormon Women to Jane Austen, Willa Cather and other female authors with a different view. My brother and myself, of all the family at large, were the only two that graduated from college. Everything we did she encouraged. What a gal.
One thing I like about Neil Tyson's "Cosmos" is that he has taken pains to point out the contributions of women to Cosmology and Physics. Their contribution is huge, considering the lack of women in the field over the centuries. Women do have a different viewpoint and different approach, which gives them an insight into issues often lacking in men.
My personal experience is that women given equal opportunity are equal to men at virtually any task, excluding perhaps something that requires size or brute strength to perform. As a firefighter I was skeptical of women as firefighters, but they have proven up to the task.
There is to a great extent a religious basis, and also that of the need to "protect the herd" prior to the advent of overcrowded societies, birth control and so forth. Now, with the reassertion of attacks on feminists, slut shaming, attacks on Planned Parenthood, personhood and so forth, whatever the other reason for suppression of women's rights, I think now the focus can be laid squarely on the shoulders of religion, certainly in the Middle East.
I would really like to know the womens opinions on this.
