A pet groomer in our area (trims toenails for free) swears by cbd oil for dogs anxiety--from loud noises, like the 4th of July or New Year's Eve and the like. Used it on our big dog who is terrified at those times. Helped a tiny bit. Used the oil on my wife's hands that have a touch of arteritis and on her knees for the same reason. Helped her knees quite a bit. My son-in-law uses it for chronic pain in his back and he swears by it. So, I guess like most stuff, each person or animal reacts differently. Mr. O, I hope it helps you and your girlfriend. Edible thc, in 5/10 mm doses helps me sleep and my wife is now using it, too. Maybe that would be of help.