You are a theist, not a deist. You do believe that the system is governed in some way which makes it hierarchical, with humans on top. That is superiority complex by definition.
You don't like atheists because they come from a higher context in general. That is what you confuse with superiority complex. It's not feeling superior you idiot. It is just not feeling anything mumbo jumbo as in terms of you do. And also you can be sure atheists are the first lot to watch the impressions of their ancestors and get emotional with it. Considering just a small group of your lot got used to the monkey business and much much later...
And yes you are projecting.
Correct. You actually paid attention all these years ;-) If you aren't a crown predator, then you are a very smart gerbil, not a human. If you want to do a Buddha Jataka tale where you feel sorry for a mother tiger, and feed yourself to her, go ahead ;-)) I like everyone (laughs and tears), but I don't like what they do sometimes. If you are a criminal, rebel, traitor, terrorist or some other sociopath, I recognize that as a mental illness, but I don't like what you do.
Yes, I am able, amateur that I am, to notice the obvious live psych tropes that people express. These are lols. The superstitious atheist, the crazy rationalist ... you, being a mature secular person ... just expressed that you are trans-human, beyond any psychology ... lol. Your "critical theory" probably comes from a book written by Lysenko.
I assume people are freely expressing themselves, and I can't ignore the empirical evidence of their humanity. Not projection, fact.