Ask any of my grandfathers, or their fathers before them. There are no real men in America. Toxic masculinity. Even my own father was wild in his youth, but not longer, after he got married, he was tamed ;-) Intellectually, I am way ahead of any of them, partially because of better technology (Internet). I would have had a son, a brain in a jar, but they were out of jars.
My daughter was on the way to being way smart, but puberty destroyed her mind. Otherwise a probably brain surgeon. Biology is very clear on what girls are for.