Guy sends dick pic, girl tells his mom

Started by Valigarmander, June 12, 2013, 04:31:24 PM

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Valigarmander

http://www.salon.com/2013/06/11/the_cro ... t_revenge/

QuoteWhen an Internet charmer by the name of Trevor sent a young woman an unsolicited dick pic, she responded with the situational equivalent of, "Would you speak to your mother with that mouth?" That is to say: She sent their correspondence to his mom. Then she posted screen captures of their conversation on her blog, aheartbeatchanged, which is currently down for unexplained reasons, with the warning, "Attention assholes: don't sexually harass a girl when she can easily find you on Facebook and send your mom proof of your perpetuation of rape culture." Then it — both the post and Trevor's "it" — went viral.
It seems to be the year of female Internet vigilantes taking on male misbehavior. Just last week, as Salon's Anna North reported, a woman outed on Facebook a stranger she allegedly overheard boasting about his marital infidelities. Naturally, the post went viral. A couple of months ago, Adria Richards tweeted a photo of men at a tech conference who she claimed were making sexually inappropriate jokes. It too blew up online, and one of the men was fired.
Before you jump to any conclusions about the appropriateness of this young woman's bold move, you have to actually read her alleged exchange with Trevor, whom she met on the app Let's Date. When he allegedly sent the photo their conversation was strictly G-rated. They were literally talking about the weather. "Is it pouring in [sic] Lo g island yet?" he wrote. When she didn't respond, he followed up with a nude mirror selfie (to his ever-so-slight credit it was at least classier than the popular disembodied penis shot).
She made her displeasure clear and he responded with, "You don't like?" and "Too big for ya?" Her response was straightforward: "I didn't need to see that. I don't need to be disrespected by someone I don't know." In true creep form, Trevor told her to "relax," it's "just" his "cock." When she told him to "fuck off" and never message her again, he revealed the full extent of his classiness: "Your a prude," he wrote. A grammar lesson ensued and then she threatened to contact his mom, whom she found via Facebook, to show her "how you treat women." She added, "She should know how you perpetuate rape culture. I am sick of being treated like this."
According to the Daily Dot, the woman in question did indeed contact Trevor's mom — no word as to whether she sent along the actual photo or just screen cap evidence of his textual repartee — but as of yesterday she hadn't received a response. She has, however, received responses of a different sort. Yes, there are lots of women pumping their fists in the air and cheering her on, but her blog has also reportedly been inundated with messages like the following, "If you had/get some good dick (which you obviously haven't/don't) you wouldn't be such a grammar nazi and prude." He really showed her! Once again, Internet jerks respond to a woman calling out jerks by being even bigger jerks.
I would take this opportunity to clarify dick pic etiquette (i.e., don't send it unless solicited, the end), but that would be an awfully naive interpretation of Trevor's alleged antics. I doubt that this is a case of ignorance. Most unsolicited crotch shots are an act of exhibitionism and aggression — something akin to flashing, for cowards. Does it warrant a complaint to the sender's mom? Well, that's up to the recipient — and, as this currently unnamed woman said on her blog, that's a warning. Technology has empowered creeps in countless ways, but it's also given their victims new power.

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missingnocchi

What's a "Leppo?"

Shiranu

Haha nice. If you are stupid enough to post a picture of your dick, you are stupid enough to deserve that picture going viral and being sent to your mother.

Good for her, and the other women in the article.
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Farroc

"The idea of getting a, y\'know, syringe full of heroin and shooting it in the vein under my cock right now seems like almost a productive act." -Bill Hicks

wolf39us

The internet... ah what a cruel cruel place  [-X

Nonsensei

Welcome to the internet lady. If you get your back up over a picture of a penis you might just want to swear off anything that utilizes electrons right now.
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All alone in desperation now the time has come
Lost inside you\'ll never find, lost within my own mind
Day after day this misery must go on

Plu

I vote we take all the idiots who send unsollicited pics like this and photoshop them into gay porn, then spread their images around the place where they live :)

Johan

The sad part is this douche nozzles pic of himself has made him an internet celeb. Or at least a minor one. He very likely sees this whole thing as a net positive for himself. In his mind, he's got internet fame now which he will be able to use to get girls to sleep with him. And what's even more sad is there are girls out there who will actually sleep with him simply because he's that naked pic internet guy.
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Also, whatever happened to my Name change to "Blurgitty"?
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Colanth

Quote from: "Nonsensei"Welcome to the internet lady. If you get your back up over a picture of a penis you might just want to swear off anything that utilizes electrons right now.
This isn't the internet, it's his phone to hers.  There's a difference.
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Shiranu

Quote from: "Nonsensei"Welcome to the internet lady. If you get your back up over a picture of a penis you might just want to swear off anything that utilizes electrons right now.

Oh I see,  harassment is okay if it's online... it's all the woman's fault!

:roll:
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AllPurposeAtheist

You pays your dollar and you takes your chances.. Plenty of women are doing the exact same thing though, but few men actually complain. I know how utterly offended I feel when some real hot lady sends me pictures of her parts.. OH THE HUMANITY! But then I simply assume it's from some fat slob named Fred living in his grandma's basement then I send him $1000 for a plane ticket.. WRONG!
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Mermaid

Quote from: "Nonsensei"Welcome to the internet lady. If you get your back up over a picture of a penis you might just want to swear off anything that utilizes electrons right now.

It is an aggressive, sexually hostile gesture and is not ok.
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Mermaid

Quote from: "Colanth"
Quote from: "Nonsensei"Welcome to the internet lady. If you get your back up over a picture of a penis you might just want to swear off anything that utilizes electrons right now.
This isn't the internet, it's his phone to hers.  There's a difference.
Besides, this is not her fault, he's the dirtbag here. There is no defending that. He totally deserved what he got.
A cynical habit of thought and speech, a readiness to criticise work which the critic himself never tries to perform, an intellectual aloofness which will not accept contact with life’s realities â€" all these are marks, not as the possessor would fain to think, of superiority but of weakness. -TR

_Xenu_

Quote from: "Plu"I vote we take all the idiots who send unsollicited pics like this and photoshop them into gay porn, then spread their images around the place where they live :)
LOL, this.
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