Author Topic: 26 year old virgin.  (Read 271 times)

Re: 26 year old virgin.
« Reply #15 on: March 15, 2017, 10:46:47 PM »
It's tough to say what the problem is, but there is something about me people don't like, not just girls. It's been this way my whole life, even back before I recognized it. Thinking back now I can see it always has.

Offline Baruch

Re: 26 year old virgin.
« Reply #16 on: March 15, 2017, 11:18:41 PM »
It's tough to say what the problem is, but there is something about me people don't like, not just girls. It's been this way my whole life, even back before I recognized it. Thinking back now I can see it always has.

i like you, in a Platonic way.  Now tell the other losers to sod off!  Even Hitler loved his mother, and I bet you are nicer than Hitler.
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Re: 26 year old virgin.
« Reply #17 on: March 19, 2017, 05:04:35 PM »
It's tough to say what the problem is, but there is something about me people don't like, not just girls. It's been this way my whole life, even back before I recognized it. Thinking back now I can see it always has.

One thing i realised before my life started improving is that your attitude is very efficiently communicated to other people in your body language and voice tone. Even in very subtle ways which you might not notice. So basically what is happening to you is probably that you are presenting yourself in ways which predispose other people to some negative emotions. One thing that happened to me was that i always thought being neutral was the best disposition to take. And my idea of neutrality was to keep my expression blank and let other people start actions. In my country it is customary to salute women with kisses on the cheek. I thought the best idea was to let the women make the first move to not impose this on them. Turns out what happened was i was just standing there with a blank expression giving no indication i wanted them to approach me either. So it was really easy to fix by just looking them into the eyes and smiling and moving slightly towards them. Though obviously if you lack confidence it is harder to naturally smile and look at people in the eyes and stuff like that. For that you need to work in your appearence. If you are really down in the dumps start from the most basic things like for example taking a shower, brushing your teeth properly with mouth wash and shit. This almost trivial stuff slowly accumulated and keeping the routine makes you feel good that you are actually trying to improve yourself. Slowly like this you canndig yourself out of whole. Be strong.

Offline Solomon Zorn

Re: 26 year old virgin.
« Reply #18 on: March 20, 2017, 04:26:15 PM »
My best friend, from the age of seven, was a virgin till the age of 47. Only he didn't lose his virginity, at that age, he dropped dead in the shower.
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Offline Baruch

Re: 26 year old virgin.
« Reply #19 on: March 20, 2017, 06:10:27 PM »
My best friend, from the age of seven, was a virgin till the age of 47. Only he didn't lose his virginity, at that age, he dropped dead in the shower.

But like Agent Smart ... he was "this" close ;-(
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Re: 26 year old virgin.
« Reply #20 on: March 21, 2017, 06:44:03 PM »
It's tough to say what the problem is, but there is something about me people don't like, not just girls. It's been this way my whole life, even back before I recognized it. Thinking back now I can see it always has.
It's not about who does or doesn't like you - it's about whether or not you like yourself. If you make of yourself someone you can like, then it matters little who else likes you.
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"It is not God that is worshipped but the group or authority that claims to speak in His name. Sin becomes disobedience to authority not violation of integrity."
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