I read what is written, and accept it as what the author believes. Your difficulty with me here is that I actually think you mean what you say. And since so much of that is really irrational, that doesn't make me think very highly of you.
Awe ... life is complicated, posting is complicated too. There is the topical comment, the rhetorical comment, the anti-comment etc .. so much rhetoric, so little time. While you never know what will come out of my mouth or my fingers, it isn't as chaotic as it seems. Evelyn Wood and typing class, the best parts of HS. The context of a post (not just mine) varies widely. This is an old fashioned party line (from my grandparent's time) with the moderators as the "busy body phone operator" listening in to all the gossip. But I don't think in this case, the media is the message.
If we had a straight conversation, on just one thing, without any rhetoric ... then you might like it better. See "informal debates" below the main section. Propose an informal debate (actually lets just have a linear and respectable adult conversation, on anything).